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Establishing Healthy Boundaries, Emotional Completion, Diagnosing Addictions and Removing Lifestyle Stressors
Socio-emotional Needs In addition to the basic human needs for air, light, water, food, sleep, strength and mobility, we also have social and emotional needs. As social animals, we have a need for social acceptance and we like to relate, … Continue reading
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Integrity, Self-trust, Locus of Control and Being with the Weirdness
Principle: Integrity and Self-trust “Without integrity, nothing works.” ~ Erhard, Jensen & Zaffron, 2009 ~ According to Werner Erhard, an important aspect of integrity is keeping my word. Keeping my word means doing what I say I will. When I … Continue reading
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Smart & Systematic Implementation: Enter the Self-Change Project
Part IV: Principles & Daily Practices for Self-Change “Opinions are of very little value, it’s your commitments (what you do with your opinions) that count.” ~ Wayne Dyer ~ “Your real values and your true beliefs are communicated by your … Continue reading
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How Context influences my Behaviour
How Context influences Behaviour “It is not what happens to you that matters, but how you RESPOND to what happens to you that determines your whole life.” ~ Brian Tracy ~ According to David Hawkins, in any situation there are … Continue reading
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Disidentifying with the Self-schema & Changing Behaviour
Define Life from the inside out “Man shouldn’t ask what the meaning of his Life is, but recognize that it is he who is asked.” ~ Viktor Frankl ~ Intuitively, when we are young we look around for guidance and … Continue reading
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Setting High Standards & the Actual and Ideal Self
Accepting Responsibility “The starting point of maturity is the realization that no one is coming to the rescue. Everything you are or ever will be is entirely up to you.” ~ Brian Tracy ~ If I want to make a … Continue reading
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